~dAmn u Internent~

Because of the boredom and my inability to gain friends in the real world, I decided to go and look for them on the fabulous world of the internet. Looking for friends online isn't that bad, or so I thought once before I got duped years ago.

POSERS

Yes, there is a lot of them over the internet. People who are not contented with reality. People who reinvent a new self over some person or object that they identify themselves with but are really the opposite of what they can do or have. Reinventing a self that you would want to see yourself isn't that bad especially if that person is going to follow that path sooner or later. What's bad is when a person confuses what he can do in that world and reality.

I do believe that once I had been one. There had been a time when I forced myself to be someone I wasn't and it made me confused with what I have and don't. I'm glad I turned around before I went deeper. Personally, I hate myself for being something like that before but it did help me grow and that's what is important.

PEOPLE WHO WRITE SOMETHING LIKE LEAVING AND NOT REALLY INTENDING TO
(a.k.a. People who are papansin)

There are lots of these types too in the internet. Sometimes there are even subtypes. I am not going too much on the details on this section, but I really don't like people who are on this category.

For some reason they just can't make up their minds. I don't know if they need help or not. What I do know is that they are people who are disturbed and seeking attention from people who they know for sure will either ignore them or enable them to continue this behavior.

Let's just say that the people who are under this category falls into two major roles: The "disabled" and the "enabler". A disabled person is the person who writes something highly emotional words that have a tendency to disturb another person's peace. That person is someone who, feeling that they have to save another soul from the depth of hell come from the enabler. They feed the disabled person's whims and creates an even more helpless/creative person (to positively put it). This cycle goes on and on until the enabler decides that it's time to leave the disabled.

I do not label this relationship or people under this relationship as something that is purely negative. Something positive might indeed come up under this relationship over time. But that is under the premise that both of them are on the realistic level and not in some digital level or any of that sort. That is to say, that both should have a genuine understanding of what they can do for real and what they cannot.


THE DEFENDERS

The direct cousins of the "enablers". However there are some cases which an enabler gains experience, thus earning the right to be labeled under this category as well. They are people who jump in at the right moment, at the right time and say random mean stuff like . Take note of the word mean.

There are two distinct categories the positve and negative defenders. Positive defenders as their name implies are people who are just about as peaceful as any defender in the real world are and can settle an argument in a civilized manner. Negative defenders are the opposite. They usually flame and if possible, drive another person traumatized or insane by the experience.


~Conclusion~

Overall these are just some observations that I've derived from the people I come in contact with over the internet. Categories can or may not apply to anyone else's experience with the internet. I am sorry if the categories are inaccurate. These are just my opinions, not to be taken too seriously.For some reason I can't even make friends online, much more than in the real world. I tried, but I failed. For some reason, I feel like I apologize too much.